Think About It

     When it comes down to it, women are just as complicated as men when it comes to a relationship. Most women complain that men could never make up their mind, or send mixed signals. In the end, most women do the exact same thing without realizing it. From experience with friends, i always hear women stating that most guys flirt with every girl, even when in a relationship. Many girls do the exact same without even realizing it. Women and Men are very similar but different at the same time. They both get very jealous, they get protective, and make a big deal out of a situation. Think about it, you like your partner for a reason. You guys are not in a relationship to be mad at each other or hate each other. You guys are together because you trust each other and make one another happy. Not every relationship is going to be perfect all the time but why not try right? If your doing something that you know your partner is going to get mad at, simply don't do it. throughout high school, many guys do not know who or what they want for themselves. It may seem like that guy is leading on girls and just dropping them. In the mindset of a guy that wants a REAL relationship, he's not leading them on and leaving because he just wants pussy. He leaves because he does not feel comfortable in the relationship he is in.

     Let's face it, everyone wants that "perfect" person to call theirs. There's no such thing as perfect. Most people would like all those amazing qualities in the person they like but you can never have all of those qualities. Find the person that makes you smile when your at your worst, the guy that called you beautiful instead of sexy because he's not just paying attention to your looks. Find the guy that will hold the door for you and open his car door for you, like a gentleman. Find the person who will always be there for you no matter how hard the times become. Find the man that on't use you for sex and the man that is proud to call you his girl. The smallest things make the biggest difference. I am proud to say that i think that i have finally found the girl that makes me happy. She may not be perfect to anyone else, but she's perfect to me. She has an amazing personality and she makes me smile twenty-four-seven. Is that not what you want in a relationship? Don't you want someone that could make you happy all the time? Cause i know i do. She respects herself and has all of the amazing qualities a man could ask for in a women. On the other hand, many women do the completely opposite.

     This brings me to my next point. Why do gils have to disrespect themselves and their body. As i hang around town, walk around school, and even just talk to my close friends, i see and hear so many women that disrespect themselves. This is the part where i start to use inappropriate language which i apologize for. WHY DO SOME YOUNG WOMEN HAVE TO DISRESPECT THEMSELVES AND BE SUCH SLUTS? What's the point of "hooking up" with a guy at a party? Or fucking some random guy? Or blowing every guy that asks? I say this because i am a guy. When a man is looking for a women to settle down with, he doesn't want a girl that has been with ten plus guys. In my opinion, a girl with self respect is very attractive. In fact, it is one of the first things i look for. Sorry sweetie, that guy is not going to want you when you have been this half of his friends. I do not want to make it seem like i am calling all girls sluts. What i am saying is that to this day, many girls disrespect themselves and give themselves away to guys. The worst part is that most of the time their excuse is "I was drunk". That does not make sense to me. Is it really worth it in the end? I didn't think so.