No matter how many people say “I love being” single, in my opinion it is not true. A relationship is the most amazing thing you can have with someone. Showing someone how much you care about them. To me, a relationship is with someone you have deep feelings for. This person is always there for you no matter what happens; not just a boy/girl friend but a best friend. The person that you are with makes you happy all the time and makes you feel special whenever you are with them.
A relationship is not about “getting shit” from the girl. It is caring for her, making her feel special, telling her she’s beautiful, and all those good things. A relationship should never be negative or have drama. In my opinion, relationships are absolutely amazing, but very hard to handle. Other people may get in the way, jealous could be a factor, or even just disagreeing on something may start a fight. One thing you have to remember is always listen before you jump to a conclusion. Talk it out and figure out the best way to avoid the problem. Don’t let a silly fight separate you from the one you love. I am a very jealous guy. It is not a very good thing because it leads to being over-protective. If I can give you any advice, don’t be over protective; give your girl some space, and trust her. Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. I tell my girlfriend all the time that its not that I don’t trust her, I just don’t trust guys around her. I know how guys are, and they will do anything to “get shit” if the girl is single or not. This is another thing that really makes me angry. Guys that use girls. It not “cool” to disrespect girls by getting shit from them. Leading a girl on, using her, and then leaving her is the most disrespectful thing a guy can do. Now a days, its all about how many blowjobs you can get. Why can’t you settle yourself down into a relationship? Many girls that suck dick and get used, probably will have troubles finding a boyfriend. Guys do not like girls that are “sluts” but men are the ones that turn them into that. This is not all girls. It’s just simply thinking before you act. Have fun but be classy.
But you can’t blame the women. Coming from a man, its mostly our fault. Men these days do not know how to treat a girl with respect. You should be treating girls like you would want your dad to treat you mom, or a guy to treat your sister. You would want your mom or sisters to be treated like gold. Tell your girlfriend how much you miss her, how much you care about her, how beautiful she is no matter what, and how much you love her. Show her that she’s the only girl you want to be with, and she’s the only one you want. Give her your full attention and just simply love her like she loves you.
One negative thing about having a relationship is that everyone is apparently in the relationship as well. People are always in your business or saying something stupid to you about your own relationship, as well as cheating. My girlfriend is younger then me. The first two weeks me and her started going out all I heard was “why are you going out with her, she’s so much younger?” But since when did age matter? And since when did my relationship matter to you? If she is the girl I want to be with because she is the perfect girl for me, what does it matter how old she is? She makes me happy and cares about me. What more can I ask for? I do not care how old she is. People are too nosey when it comes to relationships. It is my relationship. Keep your opinion to yourself. And why must people get in the middle of your relationship? If you know my girlfriend is not single, why flirt with her all the time or go to her house and chill with her. I never understood that concept. If someone is in a relationship, leave it alone. Simple as that.
Cheating is one of the most disrespectful thing to do. If you are in a relationship with someone you have feelings for, why ruin your relationship and cheat. Stay loyal to the person you love and don’t act stupid. It is actually very simple. Just remember, Relations are not as easy as you think. Simply be respectful and think before you act and your relationship will be just fine. I promise.
Shout it to Martha Gorun and Nicole Galvano for giving me the idea. Much love. Thanks for the support on the blogs.
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